tluv1 wrote:
very funny. I wear jeans and a jacket. Look as casual as can be. I tend to be talkative when I meet people, so maybe they think I am just legit and need a back rub. Should I just shut up?
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Maybe being talkative if it's loud or aggressive could be a factor in your not scoring - hell, I've had places I've gone to where EVERYBODY reports a fabulous time and I've left without any satisfaction at all! Sometimes we come across as
LE or something we do makes the girl nervous - especially on a 1st visit with her.
The above thread should help if you've not read it in detail. Always good to call ahead, say hello, give your "name" which most of the time is made up, say you've been there before and ask for a specific girl who's been reviewed. If it's a place without reviews then just ask for a specific time, be polite, don't ask too many questions, maybe price for a half hour session and then show up on time and again repeat what you did by phone. Start off by saying you called and be smiling and polite and not loud or aggressive.
Not saying any of those things are a guarantee, but they tend to make it smooth and easy in my experience and worth a try. A place you've now been to and left without any satisfaction on the 1st visit, you MIGHT get more on a follow-up visit, so do the polite call ahead thing and ask for the same girl if you think she might spring for more on subsequent visits now that she knows who you are.
Alternatively, asking for a different girl but stating in your phone call that you were with Ms. X before and ask who's available, that's another idea. The thing is, the 1st girl might end up telling whoever you get on your 2nd trip that she didn't do any
HJ (hand jobs),
BJ (blowjobs) and
FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras for you and she's not sure about you. It could happen because the ladies do talk.
It IS best to research and find the name of a lady who's been reviewed and ask for her in your call ahead. Good luck!