I would say that if you have a
BF, S/O, or just have a male friend that goes to
AMPs on a somewhat regular basis, ask him if
he could find out for you, if you wouldn't be too embarrassed to ask a man to ask about this for you...
He might even have to "escort" you in.
At my current fave
AMP I have asked a few of the providers if they would give a woman a
TS and a "massage." They all said that they would give a
TS. Two of the providers said they would give a massage...but not the same "massage" they would give a man. The other one (my all-time fave here, but sadly, now gone) said that she WOULD give an erotic massage to a woman.
She asked me, one time, if I ever thought about having a four-handed massage? I told her that I did have a bonus check coming and was thinking about it...just needed to know what time of day would be best, as I wouldn't want to start out with two providers and then one of them go and take care of another customer while on my time. Then I asked if they would "work" on each other while I watched, or participated.
My
ATF said that the other provider wouldn't do more than maybe touch, or kiss, her breasts, but that she would lick her pussy and kiss, lick, suck her nipples. Shortly after that (a few weeks later) she was rotated out of this
AMP.
So there are some that will do this.
Good Luck!...and keep us posted if you do have good luck!